Real Emotions.

Going through life is not easy, break a habit is not easy too.
I am currently going through a relationship bump I guess ? Maybe its the signaling of the end coming soon, or maybe it's just a scar to make me stronger. Who knows right.

This is what I learned from my previous experience, and I'm here to share it.
When a relationship ends, you probably have a few things in mind

1. You will constantly wonder what will your ex partner be doing, wondering is he/she dating other people. Basically, you want them to be unhappy, never happier than you are.

2. Then comes to lonely nights, lonely days where you noticed, by having a relationship, you have isolated most of your friends, and they are... not really there for you anymore. That's where most people panic / get desperate, and go for the 'rebound'.

3. Of course, on comes the sex need, you either call a call girl / hook up with some random person. aka the rebound / or u have chronic masturbation. Either way, it does not end well there.

A break up is not all bad, it takes an estimated time of..maybe 30 to 50 days to get over a serious relationship. By then, you will notice, it the guy/girl, was not that influence or not that important as you thought they were. By then, you would had noticed your more focus on your own work, your own social network, your own life, and of course, financially.

The funny thing is, you will probably give all of them up just to be in love again. How stupid humans are these days.

The one thing that you never noticed, is that you have already matured in ways you never imagined.

1. You've learned how to cope with losing someone, meaning next time if you break up again, just go through the same routine, instead of being the doormat some posers do by begging their partners to take them back.

2. You've learned not to trust people that easily. Meaning, being more independent.

3. You went through hell and you noticed, you are still alive. yes, you are still breathing and still alive. Yes, you went through hell, a lonely spell, and you went through it. Be proud of yourself.


Life is still good regardless. When you notice no matter what life throws at you, you take it and move on. Don't you just feel proud of yourself ?

Life is real, filled with real emotions. So no worries, emotions come and go, the low won't stay forever.

Heal yourself, move on, and live your life, without dwelling about the past.