Gimmick Approach
A good opening line that I used to use in random parties is by holding a paper and a pen while approaching the target. Why? - The music probably be loud as hell, and probably everyone will be talking, so that will make me stand out.
Going to pick up a girl is like trying to buy a slim fitting jeans right before the store closes. If the girl is not giving you the response you like, cut the bait and move on with the next target.
This is one of the ways to open up a girl. Take a piece of note, and scribble this on it.
"Hi," I'm taking a survey on bad lines. Circle which one you think is the worst."
"1. `Come here often, sugar pants?'
"2. `Hey, baby. Can we go out in the cold and hug?'
"3. `Hi. I'm taking a survey on bad lines.'"
90% of the time it gets a laugh, if it doesn't, move on. Why want a girl who can't laugh take a joke.
After she laughs, ask her to tell you the worse lines that has been used on her. Then your in for a conversation, simple as that !
Even if you get rejected, you might learn that maybe some of your opening lines are the ones that ladies think of as being worst lines !
The Direct Approach
Usually, the waitresses / bar tenders are wayyyy more attractive than the customers in a venue, so if you were planning to make an impression on her, this will be the way.
"I don't mean to interrupt you while you are working, but I just wanted you to know that I think you're one of the most attractive women I've ever seen, and I'm really glad I worked up the courage to introduce myself to you."
Tell her your name, ask her hers, and then let her get back to work.
Chances are, she will remember you. Girls like guys who have balls. Be wrong and strong.
For me, I am unapologetic and I give no mercy.
I used to tell people to cancel off on their dates or even family with a simple text message reply.
If a girl is planning on canceling out on our date cause she has to go to work or needs to study, I reply a simple text message like
- Call in sick, You'll have more fun with me -
Why with the short messages ? Guys usually ramble on and on, without getting to the point. Ever wonder why the billboards and advertising people put in hours of work just to come up with the ONE LINE ? right, people rather read one powerful line than an essay just to get to the point.
So always do this, one line if you are asking the girl out. Don't go all one line throughout the whole relationship tho, that's just stupid......
Flirts
Okay, obviously I can't talk much about body language here, But I can share some nice lines for you guys to try it out !
If you want to pick up someone in public, you need to keep your distance. It is a dangerous world out there, girls will naturally keep their distance with strangers.
So if you were to open a girl, you start with a simple compliment
- I like your hat -
girl - aww, thanks -
Pause. 1.
-I like your shoes-
girls - thx -
Pause, look at her sides, smile and say it with as much humor as possible
- Come to think of it, I like everything about u ! -
If she doesn't laugh, then just pull out of the set. The set is going nowhere. She needs to loosen up, her guard is up against you.
-My name is james, so whats your name miss perfection?'
Once she tells you her name, you say
- I can tell that you are a woman with good taste, know how I know that ? -
- how? -
- Cause you've been laughing at all my jokes -
She probably laugh the loudest this time, hit iron when it's hot !
- Give me five -
Put up ur palm for the 'give me five' movement, while she replies you with her palm too
heres the sneaky trick - Cross your fingers with her fingers when you guys are high fiving.
Get what I mean ? it is like you guys are holding hands, fingers crossing each other.
Why? This is a compliance test. If she grabs onto your palm like your grabbing onto hers, she is physically comfortable with you, if her high five is weak, your probably riding your luck and luck might run out soon !
That is all for today, I am SURE many people will give me shit about this blog post, its either loved or hated at the end. So there you go.
Don't hate the player, Hate the game.
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