The Bigger Picture.

All so many times, have we immaturely taken a stand for things that do not concern us. I'm sure everyone of us have done it before, hating or voicing out our concern for stuff that does not even concern us.

Example for the Chris brown and Rihanna incident, fans are bashing each other for... god knows what reason.
Even worse, all so many times we overestimate our abilities and influence on certain people or situations.

Sometimes, I get angry at myself for reasons that is beyond logical explanations, ever had that happen to you ?

Some people rant out on blogs, some people talk to their best friends, while others do not handle them in a very healthy way.
I tend to write, even though I know my English is not up to par ( blame rap music and Malaysian education system ). But I do think it is one of the healthier way of handling stress and boosting up ego. . . Instead of bashing others straight forward and moaning over and over again.

Yes, if all of your blog is just about moaning how life sucks and how emo you are, you are undisputed pathetic and you need to get a hobby quick. I guess I will never understand why people act the way they do, such as thoughts of suicide and hurting themselves. Maybe its their way of coping with stress, but people, it is unhealthy.

This is just my way of telling others and even myself, serving as a reminder that everyone is different, and if they don't do anything to affect us in a negative and impactful way, it is best to keep our mouth shut or sugarcoat our thoughts from time to time. A better phrasing will be learn how to control our emotions.

Theres a saying in the entertainment industry - Think it, Don't say it.
Hope everyone can appreciate the relevance of it.
Things are never as bad as we think it is.

Think of all the memories that in your mind was seen as a "life or death" moment, and look at it today, it doesn't really seem too much of a big deal eh. Instead it is the small lessons we learn here and there in everyday life that makes us grow and affects us the most.

So heres for the people who are going through a hard time, look at the bigger picture, Rome wasn't build in a day, take a chill pill, and think about whats your next move.
At the end of the day, it is the big picture that matters.




God, this is a boring post. Oh well, hope you guys like my new blog!